Networking follow up email templates Write the follow-up while they remember.

Eight networking follow up email templates for the moments after a mixer, a breakfast, a coffee or an online event, and a free generator that drafts yours from who you met. Each is short enough to read on a phone.

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A networking follow up email is three to five sentences, sent within a day or two: their first name, where you met, one specific thing they said, and a small ask or none. Type who you met into the generator below for a first draft, or copy one of the eight templates further down.

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Your three drafts

They appear here: an email, a LinkedIn message and a text, each with a button to copy it.

Email

Subject and message

A subject line and a short message, signed off, for your own inbox.

From
Daniel Osei
To
Megan Hollis
Subject
The partner deck, as promised

Hi Megan, here is the partner deck.
Thursday for a call?

LinkedIn

Message

One or two sentences, for a message or the note on a connection request.

Text

WhatsApp or text

A couple of lines, for someone who gave you their number.

What to say

Five parts, in this order.

Every template on this page is built the same way. Once you can see the parts, you can write your own faster than you can find a template.

The five parts of a networking follow up email, in the order they go
PartWriteSkip
Their first name “Hi Dana,” “Dear Ms. Ortiz,” unless that is how they introduced themselves
Where you met “Good to meet you at the chamber mixer on Tuesday.” “I hope this email finds you well.”
One thing they said “You said dispatch is the bottleneck before peak season.” “I enjoyed learning about your business.”
A small ask, or none “Would 20 minutes next week help?” A calendar link and a request for an hour
A plain sign-off “Best,” then your name and one way to reach you Six links, three logos and a legal notice

Dana Ortiz is an invented example. The third row is the only one a template cannot write for you: it comes from what you noted at the event.

By Kai, Founder of Cardr. Updated . Every template here is our own writing, and every figure links to the study it comes from.

Eight templates

Copy one, then make it yours.

Words in square brackets are yours to fill in. The note under each one says which line matters most.

01The day after a networking event

Email

SubjectGood to meet you at [event]

Hi [first name],

Good to meet you at [event] yesterday. I kept thinking about what you said about [the problem they described, in their words].

[One useful line: an idea, a name, or a link that helps with it.]

If it would help to talk it through, I'm happy to find 20 minutes in the next couple of weeks. No pressure either way.

Best,
[Your name]
[Phone or card link]

Make it yours. The problem in their words. If you cannot remember it, write to someone you can; a vague version of this email reads as a mass send.

02Someone you met at a mixer or happy hour

Email

SubjectFrom the [event] happy hour

Hi [first name],

We talked by the [somewhere they will picture, such as the patio] at [event] on [day]. You're [what they do], and you mentioned [the thing they are working on].

I don't have an ask. I'd just like to stay in touch, and if I come across [the kind of person or thing they need], I'll send it your way.

Thanks,
[Your name]

Make it yours. The place in the room. A loud, short conversation needs a stronger anchor than the event name, so give them the spot where you stood.

03A referral partner from a breakfast or chamber event

Email

SubjectReferrals: [your field] and [their field]

Hi [first name],

Thanks for the conversation at [chamber or group] this morning. Our clients overlap more than I expected: [one line on the overlap, such as new homeowners who need both of us].

Here's who I'm best for: [one sentence, specific enough that they could spot one]. Who is a good referral for you?

Coffee in the next few weeks would be a good start. I'm free [two specific times].

Best,
[Your name]

Make it yours. Describe your ideal client in one sentence they could repeat. "Anyone who needs insurance" gives them nothing to listen for.

04After a one-to-one coffee chat

Email

SubjectThanks for the coffee, and the [link or name]

Hi [first name],

Thanks for making time this morning. The point about [one thing they told you] was useful, and I'm going to [what you will actually do with it].

Here's [the thing you promised]: [link]. The part that fits what you're working on is [one line].

Next one's on me once [their timing, such as the launch is out].

Best,
[Your name]

Make it yours. Say what you will do with their advice. People who give time like to know it landed.

05Someone from a virtual networking event or breakout room

LinkedIn
Hi [first name], we were in the same breakout room at [event] today. Your take on [one thing they said] stuck with me. I would like to stay connected.

Make it yours. Name the breakout or the session. Online, nobody saw your face for long, so the topic is the only anchor you have.

06Thanking someone who sent you a referral

Email

SubjectThank you for sending [their name] my way

Hi [first name],

Thank you for introducing me to [name]. We've spoken, and [what happened, in one line, without anything they told you in confidence].

I owe you one. Who's the best kind of introduction I could make for you right now?

Thanks again,
[Your name]

Make it yours. Ask what referral they want back, then watch for one. Closing the loop is what earns the next introduction.

07Making the introduction you promised

Email

SubjectIntro: [first name] <> [other first name]

Hi [first name] and [other first name],

As promised at [event], I'm introducing you two.

[First name], [other first name] is [what they do], and has dealt with [the problem the first person described].

[Other first name], [first name] is [what they do], and is working on [what they need].

I'll let you take it from here.

Best,
[Your name]

Make it yours. Ask the second person before you send it. An introduction nobody agreed to is a favor to one side only.

08Reconnecting months after you met

Email

SubjectSince [event]: [the news that gives you a reason]

Hi [first name],

We met at [event] in [month]. You were working on [what they told you then], and I saw [the news: their launch, a hire, an article].

[One line on why it caught your eye, or something useful for the next stage.]

How is it going? If it's useful, I'd be glad to catch up.

Best,
[Your name]

Make it yours. A real reason to write now. "Just checking in" months later is easy to ignore; their own news is not.

Writing to someone in the UK? Our networking follow-up email templates for UK inboxes use British spelling and sign-offs, and the UK guide to following up after networking has 11 more.

More situations

Trade show, conference, or no reply yet.

Pick the page for where you met. Each has its own templates.

  • You met at a mixer, breakfast, coffee or online event The eight templates below The everyday situations, with a generator above them.
  • You worked a booth, or walked the floor After a trade show Booth visitors, quotes, vendors and the badge you scanned but barely spoke to.
  • You heard talks and met people between sessions After a conference Speakers, panelists, the hallway and the dinner.
  • You wrote, and nothing came back After no response When to write again, what to add, and when to stop.
  • You have the email, but not the subject line Subject lines 34 lines by situation, with the characters counted.
Networking vs sales follow-up

Not a sales sequence.

Most follow-up advice online is written for sales: emails to people who never met you. A networking follow-up starts from a conversation, so it can wait longer, ask for less and stop sooner.

Networking follow-up against sales follow-up
After networkingSales outreach
Starts from A conversation you both remember A list of people who have not met you
First email Within one or two days Whenever the sequence starts
The ask Small, or none at all Usually a call or a demo
How many Two after the first, then stop, unless their date arrives Sequences of several; in Hunter’s 2025 cold-email data, three in all did best
What wins a reply The thing they said, in their words Relevance and timing

The Hunter figure is in our follow-up statistics. The rest is our advice, not measured data.

Mistakes to avoid

Six ways to waste the meeting.

Each one turns a person who liked talking to you into someone deleting an email. All six are easy to fix before you press send.

Six networking follow-up mistakes, and what to do instead
MistakeWhy it costs youInstead
Waiting a week or more They met many people; by then you are reintroducing yourself. Send within one or two days.
“Great chatting about your business” It could go to anyone, so it reads like it went to everyone. Name one thing they said.
Asking for an hour A big ask from someone they just met is easy to put off. Ask a question they can answer in a line, or ask nothing.
Attaching a deck nobody asked for An attachment they did not ask for is one more thing to open, from someone they barely know. Offer it, and send it when they say yes.
The same email to everyone from the event People who met at the same event compare notes. One line per person that only they would recognize.
Adding them to your newsletter They gave you a card for a conversation, not for your mailing list. Ask first, in a separate line, or not at all.
When to send

The day after, their date, and once more.

Timing is a few moments, not one rule. The one that matters most is the date they gave you, and it is the one almost everyone forgets.

  1. Same day Write one sentence down Who, what they need, what you promised, and any date they gave you.
  2. Day 1 or 2 The first email While they can still place you. Fifty to 125 words.
  3. 1 to 2 weeks One reply, if silent In the same thread, with something new.
  4. 3 to 4 weeks The last note Useful, no ask. Then stop until there is real news.
  5. Their date The one that matters The month or quarter they named. Almost nobody comes back on it.
The schedule we recommend for people you have met. It is advice, not measured data, so no stop carries a reply rate.

The figures people quote for how many salespeople never follow up, or how many touches a sale takes, could not be traced to any study when we checked on October 29, 2026. Our follow-up statistics page shows where each one leads, and the figures that do hold up. One that does:

38%

find it hard to stay in touch

LinkedIn ·

38% of LinkedIn members surveyed worldwide said they find it hard to stay in touch with their network, and 49% gave not having enough time as the reason (LinkedIn online survey of 15,905 members in 17 countries, February to March 2017). Source. How we checked it.

The line a template cannot write

Cardr Pro writes it from your note.

Every template here leans on the one bracket only you can fill: what they said. With a free Cardr you save that sentence against their name as you walk away. At 9 a.m. your time, Cardr emails you who to follow up, with the message already written from what you talked about. One tap opens it in your email, or WhatsApp when you have their number, ready to send.

Drafts for 200 people a month, in your voice. Reminded on day 3 or the morning after you meet, your choice, or on the day they said. One more nudge on day 7 if they are still waiting. Pick a time to send it later, and the draft comes back to you then.

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Questions

Networking follow-ups, answered.

How soon should you send a follow up email after a networking event?

Within one or two days, while they can still place you. The next morning usually works best: it reads as considered, and you have had time to add the one detail that shows you listened. After about a week you are reintroducing yourself rather than following up.

What should a networking follow up email say?

Their first name, where you met, one specific thing they said, and a small ask or none, in three to five sentences. The specific thing is the line that proves it is not a mass email, and it is the one line no template can write for you.

How long should a networking follow up email be?

Short enough to read on a phone without scrolling: three to five sentences. In Boomerang’s data on over 40 million emails its users tracked, emails of 50 to 125 words got the most responses (how we checked it).

What is a good subject line for a networking follow up email?

One that names where you met or what you talked about, such as “Good to meet you at [event]”. Skip “Following up”, which says nothing until it is opened. There are 34 more, by situation, in networking follow up subject lines.

What if they do not reply to my follow up?

Reply once in the same thread after one to two weeks with something new in it, then send a last, useful note three to four weeks after that, and stop. If they named a date, write on that date whatever happened before. Templates for each are in follow up email after no response.

Should I follow up by email or on LinkedIn?

Use what they gave you. Email is better for anything with a date, a document or a next step in it. LinkedIn suits someone you only have a name and a company for, or a speaker you heard but barely spoke to. Text only if they gave you their number for that.

What happens if JavaScript is off?

The generator still works: your drafts open on the generator’s own page instead of in place here.

Is it OK to use AI to write a networking follow up?

Yes, as a first draft you then make yours. The follow-up message generator on this page drafts from what you type, and nothing is sent from it. In Hunter’s 2025 data, manually edited emails got more replies than fully automated ones (5.2% against 4.4%), so always edit before you send.

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